Love – A Gift Or Exchange ?

Love – or gift exchange? Heard some girls say: "I was giving him his love, but he's a scoundrel …". I wake up in the Stanislavsky and says – do not believe it! Let's get together. Giving, for example, love, cake, care, bottles of wine – it means nothing, that is free of charge. I bestow you, but you have my answer does not have to. Right? If you must, it's not a gift, a barter agreement. I have something you give, instead of getting what I need. Change is normal.

All the people than any change, based on this whole trade and business relations. "I was giving him his love, but he's a scoundrel …". Is it true that we are talking about the donation, rather than the desire to change, I love you, and you give me something, too, For example, the same love, attention and care. If a girl gives a love that is given away, from where the claim "but he's a scoundrel …". The villain, I think, because it did not pay, you have breached the contract.

What? Implicit contract of barter. Why secret? Because that's been made. To think that you give more pleasant and romantic. But behind the scenes man offers to change. For example, to be honest, there is a sort of unwritten contract of barter. Girl: "I love you (sex) and you to me, attention, caring, feeling "like a stone wall," well, it is possible – funding. " Young people tend to have sex agrees on everything else possible. More often, of course, is the opposite. Young man offer care, attention, understanding, relationship, hoping to get … what? Correct sex. But naturally, it does not need to be discussed directly. So are two-sided fraud. It's like giving assembled, in fact – to change. Does it happen differently? Probably. Do you want to – try it. For example, Mary decided to give my love Sasha (sex). Sasha did not mind, but when he heard the word "give", I realized – this is a gift, free of charge. So he says Masha, "You keep giving your love, I really like, but today I spoke with close Dasha. " Mary will continue to give? Maybe, just how long? Masha can understand, she love Sasha, but he is a Dasha, in short – a scoundrel. Then do not talk about the gift. We call all their names. What people call love is a contract of barter. Sometimes an honest, sometimes not. A donation is possible only as an invitation to further exchanges. So Decent people know – the correct answer to gift a gift, and smart to understand that, in fact, they are offered vary. Or not?